Crossing the Bridge with Your Partner
Sometimes couples request a longer session. Sometimes couples will request a longer session, and during this time—usually 4 to 6 hrs—I spend time guiding you to a deeper connection with your beloved, leading to a more intimacy and a renewed sense of hope. It is a session that leads to transformation and and healing.
“The growth potential of the relationship lies in bringing to light the developmental themes that fuel the reactive dynamic and the relational nightmare, a survival dance that you both engage in, and thus systematically unraveling the “Survival Knot”
New creative energy can flow between you, in the service of productively designing a relationship of choice, rather than of reactivity and compulsion.”
–Hedy Schleifer, 2018
You will learn how your unmet childhood needs create frustration and pain in your relationship. You will both learn to stretch new emotional muscles to meet each others’ need. During this intensive and private session, you will learn how to cultivate presence, depth, and authenticity with your partner.
This longer session is for you if
- You wish to heal your relationship – repair old hurts, restore your trust and rediscover your connection with your beloved
- Learn new ways to communicate, and resolve conflict and challenges
- Deepen your awareness of your own life as well as your partner’s
- Take conflict and turn it into productive change
This will help you to
- speak your desires
- transform daily frustrations into gifts of learning about yourself and your partner
- dissolve deep conflict
- bring passion back into your relationship
You will also learn
- To understand your partner’s behavior more deeply.
- To make requests in a way that can be heard and acknowledged.
- How your brain works in relationship with another human.

Is the intensive right for you? Do you have questions? Scroll down to the section How Can I Help? and send me your name, email and message. I’ll get back to you as quickly as I can.